Friday, March 13, 2015
Hello Fam, how y'all doing, I know you guys have expected My krazy Life post for a long time.
Am sorry I really don't have an excuse ooo
By now,everybody wants to know what's up with the Banker chick, well that one is story for another day. So today, I officially want to kick off My Krazy Life for this year. So for the first post am going to talk on random stuffs.
Oya, let's look at this dating stuff through my confused eyes. Most times the word or the sentence "I love you" scares the hell out me when it comes from most people, though many would regard it as the magical word when it comes to woman toasting business.
One of these days I sat down and started reminiscing on my life, the girls I dated, the ones who felt I dated/dating them.
I could vividly remember on some occasions, after I broke up with my last official girlfriend more than 1095 days ago, my friends would say "Ice why don't you want to date again or are you gradually liking boys" Sometimes they go as far as taking me to places where I can see more than 10 girls *sighs* The issue then was let me just make a choice and everything would be taken care of, but I never really liked any.During the last days of my last relationship, a girl came into the picture, We were quite close and I got to like. After the break up, I then Iiked her even more. Guess what? I Don't think she liked me back, cos I heard all she said behind my back.
It was until recently that I was seeing a movie and I learnt that was called "Unrequited Love" and the twisted aspect of that "Unrequited Love" is that you don't even know how to end it. Most people pull through successfully but most people pass through emotional wreck, but I think i pulled through successfully lol . Some of my friends call me the "Legendary Switch" cos most times I change the girls like I buy new shoes, but that life is boring sometimes and your finances is always on the down side. But after thinking for a while, I realized that what made me switch successfully was because I never really cared or worried about most of those ladies.
I have always looked for answers regarding several questions. Most times why I act the way I act, one of them was why I could just switch successfully, my elder sister answered that for me, she told me "you were able to do that cos you never liked any of them". I remember also asking her "Is it a must that one must date" she told me "NO" but if I finally find someone I really really like and worry about she would guide me. So my fragile heart wouldn't be shattered just like some people would say or let's say the impact wouldn't be much.
So far I have learnt a couple of things, especially when it comes to dealing with "Unrequited Love".... We all have to understand that things doesn't just work out the way we want them, especially all things love and relationship thing.
1. This final year isn't giving me time, after all the hustle I finally got a supervisor... It's a story for another day sha.
2. Exam is around the corner no time for pictures
Please bear with me
3. A lot has been happening in My Krazy Life but I don't know if the people involved would want me to share.
Finally I spoke with Ribena on phone, mehn her voice is over the moon, with her porsche accent, she doesn't even know that Ice doesn't hear English in the night.... But I thank God for smartphone, I used Google translate to translate her speech into my igbotic English hahahaha ... Duru woman wrapper mood activated... Get ready to compete with me ooooo, cos am not even letting go like I did the last time.Hope my rant was understood
Have a good weekend.